Protective Mothers' Alliance International

family court abuse/corruption

The Mothers’ Movement’s Dirty Little Secret: Abusers Within

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PMA INTL. STATEMENTS:

PMA INTL wants to be very clear that other protective mothers are being targeted for abuse by the same individuals targeting PMA INTL. This is NOT just about PMA INTL but about protecting all protective mothers from abusive advocates within the Mothers’ Movement.

PMA INTL wants to be very clear that there is no” bickering, ” “in fighting”,” arguing” “war” or any other word that might imply mutuality about this AMPP issue. This is a common misconception about this sad situation. This is a very clear case of abuser and target This is the epitome of cyber bullying. PMA never responds in kind to these attacks, PMA in no way initiates these attacks. Understand these attacks have been going on for four years. PMA does not create hate sights targeting protective mothers for abuse. Abusers wishing to escape responsibility for the abuse perpetrated on their victim put out this misleading language. Has PMA RESPONDED a few times to defend and correct the libel put forth? Yes, we have; a few times. But for the large part we have remained silent on the issue and there is no proof of us responding in kind. This is a VERY IMPORTANT distinction that must be made. Also; because of PMA’s no abuse zone policy we do not work with abusers. This is why we do not work with AMPP and supporters/ colleagues We are in a movement FIGHTING abuse,( all forms of abuse) not CONDONING it.You cannot “negotiate” with an abuser, you cannot “bridge the gap” with an abuser; Moms have you tried to do this with your exes? How did this work out for you? We must be careful not to use the same language and mind set about the dynamics of abuser and victim as the family courts have used on us to excuse the abuse and the abuser. We must be careful not to victim blame. We must not be hypocrites as our credibility depends on us ” walking our talk” As moms we have already experienced this victim blaming with our abuser exes and family court. We must learn from our experiences and not continue the pattern and the cycle of abuse.

Hearing an accusation about PMA, Janice or Lundy ? ASK THE ACCUSER FOR PROOF if you want to know the truth. Please do not accuse anyone without proof. Gossip is dangerous. Currently, several Protective Mothers are being abused ( not just PMA), with libel and cyber bullying. Some “advocates” in the movement are supporting the abusers by promoting and working with them , staying silent, victim blaming, excusing their abuse, attempting to silence victim’s voices and more. Please stand up for what is right. Do not stay silent ASK FOR PROOF. Tell the abuser to stop!!! Hold abusers accountable. Help protective moms from being re-victimized. If you are a new protective mom looking to join a group be very very cautious, as certain advocates and groups may not be what they appear to be.
Some tips for your safety
1. Look for a no abuse zone policy posted on their website. But look for PROOF of adherence to this policy by investigating the contents of their past posts.
2.Look into past posts to see if they supported AMPP or Claudine
3. If so, look to see if a post denouncing AMPP and Claudine’s behavior was or is posted anywhere.( per Lundy’s request )
If you do not see proof of above be cautious in believing their rhetoric and be very cautious in giving out your personal info to them.A little bit of work in looking back on the advocates/ groups’ history of posts on the internet can go a long way in protecting yourself, your family court case, and your children along with keeping you and your family safe.
For further information on safety tips for protective moms please visit our post ( link below)

https://protectivemothersallianceinternational.org/2014/06/04/using-the-internet-safely-while-advocating-for-your-personal-custody-case/

Let’s treat each other with kindness, respect and love. Protective Mothers’ have been through so much. Best to you all, and Thank you for your support. Stay safe.

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  1. This is disgusting! I have been carefully watching this. I dont know what is more disgusting AMPP ‘s abuse or the rest who stand by and do nothing. How can you call yourselves leaders and domestic violence abuse experts . You are shameful. You keep twisting it around to try and make it PMA’s fault but we all know better. We are watching.

    Betty

    August 2, 2013 at 7:50 am

  2. Happy you posted this PMA. AMPP thinks we are dumb. We know abusers twist things and try to make it the victim’s fault. We KNOW this has been going on for years and the attacks are unprovoked. kick these abusers to the curb. No room for abusers around protective mothers. I dont care that some of these abusers have past history of abuse. WE ALL do . Many mothers who do still dont continue the cycle. Get help AMPP you need it and stay away from protective mothers.

    Tori

    August 2, 2013 at 7:56 am

  3. This is about time! PMA and Janice have endured attacks from Claudine and AMPP for several years now. We ( PMA) were told to ignore it. Is this the advice they give protective mothers about abuser exes!!!?????Everybody in the movement knew about the abuse and did nothing! Still do nothing! All the so called leaders stood by and watched protective mothers and advocates be attacked and abused by this person. and her buddies. Thank you Lundy and Janice for having character and ethics . You are the only trustworthy ones and PMA is the only organization in the movement that has any credibility.

    Dawn

    August 2, 2013 at 8:30 pm

  4. I am speechless. Cannot believe this abuse by AMPP is allowed by the mothers movement. Death threats and all! Come on now get real!. Stand strong PMA!

    Betty

    August 6, 2013 at 8:35 am

  5. I have personally worked with Janice and have known others who have too. She is wonderful. We all think so. Those complaining about her are a very few AMPPs who are jealous or mothers who have unrealistic expectations expecting Janice, Lundy and PMA to MAGICALLY get their children back, even though PMA has on the website , in English, that they do not get involved in personal cases. AMPP has lied for years on PMA. Claudine started lying on Bill W because she insisted on being FEATURED in his doc. due to her ego. When he refused and said all mothers have equally important stories, this is when the lies on him began. If some in AMPP don’t get their way, watch out!!! they will lie on you all over the internet. Sounds like an abuser trait doesn’t it? I am happy Bill is making them accountable for their criminal actions. Only Bill, Janice and Lundy have the integrity and guts to do the right think.

    Sue

    August 15, 2013 at 8:14 am

  6. In my opinion those AMPP women have personality disorders. Just do a little research and watch them. They have all the traits. Just because they are women and moms don’t mean they can’t have mental issues. What normal person acts the way they do? Threatening live and lying all over the internet . These people have serious problems. I feel sorry for their children. Imagine your mother behaving like that? scary. We all know the truth. It is pretty obvious. Healing light to PMA Janice and Lundy who have to put up with this abuse. Bill too.

    T.J

    August 15, 2013 at 8:22 am

  7. I dont believe a word that AMPP says. They r nasty. Shame on the rest of the mothers mov. 4 doing nothing to stop abuse. Shame, Shame Shame.

    L.G

    August 15, 2013 at 8:25 am

  8. Yeah, Claudine just wants to be featured in Bills movie. When he said no she flipped. She wants to be a star.

    anonymous

    August 15, 2013 at 8:28 am

  9. What mother’s movement? All I see is abuser women attacking others trying to sincerly make positive changes while others allow the abuse. Sounds like family court dynamics to me.

    Val

    August 17, 2013 at 3:48 am

  10. Janice, Lundy and PMA are my heroes. Lawless and Bill are cool too. The rest are in it for their own agendas. Claudine and AMPP are lying abusers,( in my opinion)

    Linda

    September 6, 2013 at 6:14 am

  11. Lundy and Janice are wonderful. They are loving kind and no egos, unlike some other advocates I know. They are true advocates and they have no agenda except to help us protective moms

    Linette

    September 7, 2013 at 5:31 am

  12. What is going on in the movement and BMCC is a disgrace. The only ones I trust are PMA. Abusers??? and others condoning abuse??? This is exactly what us protective mothers do not need more of. We need protection from abusers. Thank you PMA for standing up against abuse and protecting us mothers. Lundy is a hero in my book.

    Sally

    September 7, 2013 at 5:42 am


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