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Letter to My Teen (Will This Reach Her Eyes, Her Heart?)/ Moms’ Hearts Unsilenced

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This beautiful letter was originally created by Moms’ Hearts Unsilenced ( link below)

Moms’ Hearts Unsilenced was kind enough to also share this poignant letter with PMA International on our Love Letters to Our Children Project ( link below )

https://protectivemothersallianceinternational.org/love-letters-to-our-children/

https://www.facebook.com/events/597929206912196/

This speaks directly to the heart of all protective mother’s suffering without their precious children due to DV By Proxy or Parental Alienation. Thank you to Moms’ Heart Unsilenced for sharing a piece of your heart with us.

http://momsheartsunsilenced.com/2013/01/07/letter-to-my-alienated-teen-will-this-reach-her-eyes-her-heart/

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Dear Daughter,

I love you more than words can convey. And I can’t begin to tell you how painful, how agonizing it has been to have been kept from expressing love to my child — to have been prevented from caring for you. And to hear from others of signs you are showing signs of pain & emptiness… I can’t express how desperately difficult this is, & how terrible it feels not to be able to make anyone protect you, let alone be blocked from reaching out & keeping you safe. It (this issue) is not you; it is this situation we’ve been put in — a situation which began a while back 😦

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I will move back if you ask — if my presence will help you — it only seemed to hurt before, so I left to create a safety nest. I love you & want to care for you & help you heal — it is what you deserve! It is your right.

I will be where you need me to be. You only have to let me know. I would already be there if I knew it did not create trouble for you. I love you. I am here for you, waiting to know what you need me to do under these painful circumstances.

We are not alone. Other daughters & moms are also going thru this hell. We are praying for each other & for PEACE. But most of all,

I’m praying for you — your safety & wellness & right to love & enjoy your entire family. (These things all go
together.)

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I MISS YOU — your humor, your sweetness, your curiosity, your creativity, your talent with critters… our experiments with crafts/projects gone wrong, our practical jokes…

I’m so sad that so much time has been stolen — not just these past few years, but since you were small, too. And so much peaceful mother-daughter & family time was interfered with. But I was happy for you because I thought you had all the caring attention I never had. I also thought (& had been encouraged to believe) that I had less value than others in your life, but now I realize that is a lie. meerkats

So many things I did & decisions I made were about trying to hold things together for our family under the weight of confusion. Although I regret my mistakes, ignorance, lack of parenting skills in an unfamiliar & unsecure situation, I’ve accepted (with the help of others) that I’m human. While no one person should be at the center of any one’s life all the time (and no one, daughter, should limit who you love at any time, including — especially including: yourself), I strongly believe in the value I have in your life, or I would not bother in the face of so much painful rejection.

Control and rejection are two major components of parental alienation =(

You know I stand for forgiveness, inclusiveness, love, harmony, & peace….

I am working hard to help others of all ages recognize parental alienation & to support others who are suffering. You have also inspired me to share with others about why someone should consider vegetarian and vegan choices!

cowYour loved ones need you to be safe & healthy!!

But, I am also enjoying all the little blessings & not-so-little things in life, & I pray for the day you will enjoy them with me & your whole family.

Love always, Momma

For more beautiful love letters, poems, videos from protective moms to their child(ten) please visit our Love Letters To Our Children project on FB and on this website/blog ( links above)

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big hug, little hug, little kiss, little hug…

Written by protectivemothersallianceinternational

July 27, 2014 at 9:10 am

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  1. Thank you so much. I hope & pray the truth of my love reaches my daughter & other victims of Parental Alienation Syndrome, or DV by Proxy. God bless you for the work you do for us.

    Torn 2 Peaces

    July 28, 2014 at 3:27 pm

    • You are welcome!!! We hope and pray that your daughter and all children alienated from their loving parents be reunited very soon. We also hope and pray for deep healing, between these parents and their children. We thank you for all you do too, and support you in your mission. Love to you


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